Why do so many men get sucked in to thinking that if they learn these tricks and techniques they can be successful with women?
The answer is because it is all true.
BUT the catch is, it only works for short term relationships.
If you want to meet a woman in a bar or club to form a short term relationship with I can’t recommend anyone’s techniques more highly than Mystery or Style. You can read about both of them in Neil Strauss (Style’s) book ‘The Game’, or follow the links on my links page.
The truth of how people meet who end up in long term or life-time relationships is, they don’t meet in bars and clubs, they meet at work or in ordinary everyday places. A friend introduces you to someone, you bump into someone while getting your morning coffee. The essential question is:
What do you do when you bump into that magical ‘someone’?
For many men and women this is where their problems are. They have this moment of opportunity and they BLOW IT, because they can’t get into their fake PUA personality fast enough.
The pick-up techniques don’t work in ‘normal’ life because you have to be you. You can’t pretend to be this ‘player’. It’s the same reason why it works in bars and clubs, you make a good first impression but reality doesn’t live up to the expectations you have set. So when she finds out who you really are “yuck”.
In the coaching work that I do, I work with both men and women. I teach one thing only, the thing I’m a specialist at. I teach you how to go where your problems aren’t so you can be comfortable being you. So you can be naturally successful in the relationship that you want.
When you become comfortable in being you, you let your natural charisma and attractiveness out. The way to attract someone who is right for you is to truly be YOU. The unconscious signals you naturally send out can’t be faked over a period of time, so you need to know how to organise your neurological configuration. The essence of who you are so you are congruent with other people.
Just think, how would you be relating to people differently, if you knew you were ok as you, being naturally attractive?
To find out more read my free e-book or have a browse around my website here.
In working with clients it’s quite often the case I see people like you for between 1 to 3 sessions. Sometimes 1 session is all that is needed and you will just get how to go where your problems aren’t. Other times the 2nd session is used to feedback what has worked and optimise what you are doing so you can build on the success you already have had. In the 3rd session we set up your long term plan designing a generative loop, where you design your own ‘happy ever after’, with the practical steps you need to take to ensure you make this happen in the way that you want. Other clients who have specific areas they want to develop, we can focus on those in whatever way works best for you.
It’s all about you getting what you want, and I’m here to help you do this in the most effective way for you possible. All work is done in total confidence and we’ll meet in a place that is comfortable and natural for you.
